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Thursday, 9 January 2025

TURNING OF THE HEARTS PART 2

 


The power of the Spirit of Elijah amazes me. It bridges time and space and unites families in miraculous ways. And in the process, it heals and changes us forever. I am a witness to this process.

It started with my father who gave me a priceless gift. He gave me the Gospel.

When he was just a youth growing up in a poor peasant household in the socialist republic of Croatia, my father rejected the expected role of the oldest son to remain on family land to inherit it along with the care of his parents.

He chose instead a trade at the expense of his father's displeasure and rejection....a trade which enabled him later to move our family to the city life when I was 3 years old. This heroic move led to another even a more heroic one which took our family to a land of more opportunity, Australia. I was 14 years old when we left our homeland.

We hailed from a strong Catholic community. I attended our local Church regularly but my parents and my sisters were not so committed. My father had never expressed any deep spiritual convictions and I had never seen him at Church.

Unbeknownst to him, my father had brought me to a country, by spiritual design, where I could receive the greatest opportunity of all: the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I was 17 when I approached my parents with my desire to join the Church.

My father does not show emotion but this news outraged and scared him. We were immigrants of 3 years in a strange country and my father’s fear was that I was joining a polygamous cult. He gave me an ultimatum. If I insisted on joining the Church, I had to leave home.

I was driven. The spirit of conversion burned inside me. I left home and was cut off from my family. It was the most devastating event of my then young life which ripped the fabric of my family for many years.

My sister stepped in and reconciled me with my parents a year later. All seemed well but our rift was never addressed properly and the reconciliation was too little too late. My father had become disillusioned with Australia and took my mother back to Croatia.

We corresponded over the years and I visited just once, after my mission. Whilst there I showed great interest in my Croatian roots and with my father’s help I gathered a lot of our family history, which pleased him greatly. So you see he was my accomplice in the temple work I did for my family.

I didn’t see my parents for 20 years before they passed away. I had their temple work done…….except for one ordinance. I was never sealed to them. For some reason, I didn’t feel the spiritual connection with them and could not see my father as someone who would accept the Gospel. The temple work I did for them was perfunctory. I did it out of duty.

And then ‘the turning of my heart happened’….. 15 years later. Suddenly I started thinking about my father. I was his favourite child and the magnitude of the pain I caused him when I left home bore heavily on me. I cried day after day….and I would plead in my prayers that he be told how sorry I am that I hurt him. I could not understand why after all these years I was sorrowing over that experience of my young life.

Then one day I understood, I was not sealed to my parents. The thought came to me that all that pain was wasted for something I believed in and sacrificed for that would never be ours. It was as if my father was speaking to me. I felt I had dishonoured my parents and basically rejected them and I felt enormous guilt. I made a commitment to get the sealing done. As I did so, the sorrowing left and I was at peace. I knew I had been forgiven.

Sometimes in ‘turning our hearts to our fathers’, some resolutions need to happen and most often than not they involve some form of forgiveness. Some of us hail from dysfunctional families, some from abuse, some from abandonment but all come from flawed humanity.

If something is holding you back from the sealing ordinances, know that forgiveness is the key. It will free and change you and it will replace all the grief that is in your heart with unearthly love.

We cannot be saved without our dead. Elijah was not the only one to appear at the Kirtland Temple. The Saviour came too, in acceptance of it to impress upon us this truth. To Him our salvation is everything because this is His work and His glory.


- CATHRYNE ALLEN 

(Art: The Lord's Appearance to Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery in the Kirtland Temple by Theodore S. Gorka)


Monday, 4 November 2013

WHEN WE LOSE A LOVED ONE



While delivering an inspired discourse at the Salt Lake Tabernacle on Sunday, October 4, 1896, President Wilford Woodruff stated that while labouring in the St. George Temple, he had learned a new principle of the gospel pertaining to the redemption of the dead:

While in the St. George Temple I had a son, who was in the north country, drowned.  He was 21 years of age, and was a faithful young man.  He had a warning of this.  In a dream he was notified how he would die.  We had a testimony of that after his death.  I asked the Lord why he was taken from me.  The answer to me was, "You are doing a great deal for the redemption of your dead; but the law of redemption requires some of your own seed in the spirit world to attend to work connected with this".  That was a new principle to me; but it satisfied me why he was taken away.  I name this, because there are a great many instances like it among the Latter-day Saints.



Marriner Wood Merrill was a member of the Council of the Twelve Apostles from 1889 and Logan Temple President from 1884 to 1906.  Often his excessive temple labours fatigued him, which was later compounded by the death of one son, whose sudden passing Apostle Merrill could not reconcile.  Finally, on one evening following his exhaustive temple work, the Logan Temple President received a visit from his deceased son from the spirit world as recounted by President Heber J Grant:

He once told me that he could not reconcile himself to the death of his son Marriner, who had had charge of practically all his financial affairs, as he gave so much of his time to the Temple, until he received a manifestation in which Marriner seemed to be in the room with him, although not seen, and spoke to his father and said: "Pa, I am where the Lord wants me to be.  I am doing work of more importance than I would be on earth, and it is not pleasing to the Lord for you to grieve as you are doing over my death".  He said this reconciled him to the loss.



In a Church general conference Rudger Clawson of the Quorum of the Twelve related a marvellous manifestation received by one faithful Salt Lake Temple worker in which the status of married couples in the spirit prison who have not been sealed for eternity in a temple was revealed:

Upon one occasion I saw in vision my father and mother who were not members of the Church, who had not received the gospel in life, and I discovered that they were living separate and apart in the spirit world, and when I asked them how it was that they were so, my father said, "This is an enforced separation, and you are the only individual who can bring us together.  You can do this work.  Will you do it? - meaning that he should go to the House of the Lord and there officiate for his parents who were dead, and by the ordinance of sealing bring them together and unite them in the family relation beyond the veil.



"Temple Manifestations"  p. 77, 89, 131
 
 
 

SAVIOURS ON MOUNT ZION


Despite the fact that the forces of evil raged against the saints during the construction of the Salt Lake Temple, marvellous spiritual manifestations continued to attend those who laboured there.  One such labourer at the House of God received such a manifestation:

In the fall and winter of 1892-1893 I worked at painting in the Salt Lake Temple.  Although sick, I felt strongly impressed to go and do my very best.

At noon the third day after beginning, President Woodruff called all of the workmen together.  He said he had been told that some of the workmen had stated that it would be impossible to have the temple completed by April 6th.  he said when he looked at this body of men he didn't believe a word of it.  "Some of you may be sick and weak", (I thought he was talking to me) he continued, "Some of you may give out at night, but you will be here in the morning if you are faithful.  You are not here by accident.  You were ordained in the Eternal World to perform this work.  Brethren, I will be here April 6th to dedicate this building.  I know what I am talking about for this was shown me in a vision 50 years ago in the city of Boston".

Along about March, 1893, I found myself alone in the dining room - all had gone to bed.  I was sitting at the table when to my great surprise my old brother Alfred walked in, sat down opposite me at the table and smiled.  I said to him (he looked so natural), "When did you arrive in Utah?" (He had lived in New Zealand and I had not heard from him in years).

He said, "I have just come from the Spirit World, this is not my body that you see, it is lying in the tomb.  I want to tell you that when you were on your mission you told me many things about the Gospel, and the hereafter, and about the Spirit World being as real and tangible as the earth.  I realized that you had told the truth.  I attended the Mormon meetings".  he raised his hand and said with much warmth, "I believe in the Lord Jesus Christ with all my heart, I believe in faith and repentance and baptism for the remission of sins, but that is as far as I can go.  I look to you to do the work for me in the temple".  He continued, "You can go to any kind of sectarian meeting in the Spirit World.  All our kindred there knew you were trying to make up your mind to come and work on the temple.  You are watched closely, every move you make is known there; and we were glad you came.  We are all looking to you as our head in this great work.  I want to tell you that there are a great many spirits who weep and mourn because they have relatives in the Church here who are careless and are doing nothing for them".  He then disappeared.




As I sat pondering upon what I had seen and heard, with my hear filled with thanks and gratitude to God, the door opened again and my brother Alexander walked in and sat down in the chair that Alfred had just occupied.  He had died in 1852 in New Zealand.  I did the work for both he and Father in April 1885.  he had come from a different sphere, he looked more like an angel as his countenance was beautiful to look upon.  With a very pleasant smile he said, "Fred, I have come to thank you for doing my work for me; but you did not go quite far enough", and he paused.  Suddenly it was shown to me in large characters, "no man without the woman and no woman without the man in the Lord".
 
 



"Temple Manifestations", page 128



Thursday, 24 October 2013

THE WORK OF SALVATION


President Joseph F. Smith, the 6th president of the Church, received an important revelation about the redemption of the dead 6 weeks before he died.  He saw in vision the Saviour's ministry in the spirit world where between the time of his crucifixion and resurrection 'he organised his forces and appointed messengers, clothed with power and authority, and commissioned them to go forth and carry the light of the gospel to them that were in darkness, even to all the spirits of men, and thus was the gospel preached to the dead'. (D&C 138:30)

Every prophet that stands at the head of the Church seems to have a certain task to perform during their ministry, a task that seems very suited to their capacities and talents.  They have all been instruments in God's hands in bringing something significant to the Church for the edification of the saints.  Perhaps none deserved to receive the revelation of the redemption of the dead more than President Joseph F. Smith. 

Joseph F. Smith was Hyrum Smith's son and was only 6 when his father and his uncle, Joseph Smith, were killed in Carthage jail.  He was 7 when his mother, Mary Fielding Smith and her family joined the exodus from Nauvoo and he became the teamster of one of her wagons.  He was 13 when his mother died, leaving him an orphan.  Before he turned 16, he left on a mission to the Hawaiian Islands.  Within three months after arriving in Honolulu, he spoke the native tongue fluently, a spiritual gift conferred upon him by Elders Parley P. Pratt and Orson Hyde of the Twelve, who set him apart.  This boy was not yet 16!  Consider what the 16 year olds in our day and age are doing at such a tender age.  When he was 21, Joseph F. Smith left for another mission, this time for three years in the British Isles.  When he was 28, President Brigham Young ordained him an Apostle. This was one of the special spirits chosen for the express purpose of building the kingdom here on earth. His story doesn't end here though.  This man was acquainted with the poignant pains of physical suffering and death.  Death seemed to be his trial in life as he not only lost his parents but buried a wife and 13 children.  In early 1918 President Smith was devastated by the death of his son Hyrum, then only 45 and serving as an Apostle.  Only a few months after that Hyrum's wife also passed away.  President Smith's health turned for the worse after that.  He was sick for 5 months during which time he studied  and contemplated the scriptures fervently.  The revelation of the redemption was the result and was received 6 weeks before he died.  It was added to the Pearl of Great Price in 1976 and in 1979 was transferred to the Doctrine and Covenants as section 138.


We are engaged in a great work.  Proxy work is being accomplished on both sides of the veil for the redemption of every soul who has ever lived.  On either side of the veil we are acting on behalf of the Saviour trying to save souls, whether we are preaching in the spirit world to those who are in darkness or whether we are doing their temple work here by proxy.  Either way we are Saviours on mount Zion. What an amazing privilege to be able to save a soul.  President Hinckley said as follows:

" I think that vicarious work for the dead more nearly approaches the vicarious sacrifice of the Saviour himself than any other work of which I know.  It is given with love, without hope of compensation, or repayment or anything of the kind.  What a glorious principle." ("Excerpts from Recent Addresses of President Gordon B. Hinckley", Ensign, Jan. 1998, 73)

Knowledge is pretty much worthless unless acted upon.  It can sit in our brains as nothing more than accumulated data.  I am starting to see my role in all this and where I need to improve.  My temple attendance is going to be heavily revised.  I want to be found there engaged in the work of salvation when the Saviour graces us with His presence again.  I know I was a part of this great work before I came here and I want to be engaged in it for the remainder of my days.

President Kimball said this of Temple work:

"The day is coming not too far ahead of us when all temples on this earth will be going day and night.  There will be shifts and people will be coming in the morning hours and in the night hours and in the day hours....day and night almost to exhaustion, because of the importance of the work and the great number of people who lie asleep in eternity..."(From You to Your Ancestors, Salt Lake City: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, 1978, p.2)





 



Wednesday, 23 October 2013

ELIJAH IN OUR HEARTS



When the angel Moroni came to Joseph Smith, he said that Elijah would 'plant in the hearts of the children the promises made to the fathers" (D&C 2:2)  The fathers in this instance refers to our ancestors, namely the ancient fathers: Adam, Noah,  Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.  The promises made to them have to do with the Abrahamic Covenant and are namely eternal promises of land and children and blessings of the priesthood.  Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve said that not only has God made these promises to the ancient patriarchs but that we 'undoubtedly made them to our own lineal fathers and mothers, those who came to earth before the gospel was restored but whom we promised to provide its saving ordinances' (Christ and the New Covenant 1977, p. 297)

Why are these promises so important?  Because without the blessings of the priesthood our time on this earth would be wasted.  What are the blessings of the priesthood?  Saving ordinances and sealing power which binds families together.  One of the primary purposes of life on earth is to establish eternal family relationships.  Without the sealing power, this would be impossible.  Elder Jeffrey R. Holland taught that without the sealing power, "no family ties would exist in the eternities, and indeed the family of man would have been left in eternity with 'neither root (ancestors) nor branch (descendants)'.  Inasmuch as ... a sealed, united, celestially saved family of God is the ultimate purpose of mortality, any failure here would have been a curse indeed, rendering the entire plan of salvation utterly wasted". (Christ and the New Covenant, p 297-98)

But our time on this earth and the plan of salvation will not be 'utterly wasted' at the Saviour's coming (D&C 2:3) because the sealing power of the priesthood was restored to the earth by Elijah through the Prophet Joseph Smith in the Kirtland Temple in 1836.


"The story of Elijah's return can be found in D&C 110.  Obviously there is no need to wait for him any longer.  This became the subject of conversation between Elder LeGrand Richards and the Mayor of Jerusalem, Teddy Kollek.  Elder Richards had just dedicated the Orson Hyde Memorial Garden on the Mount of Olives.  After the ceremony, the two conversed as they ate their lunch:
Elder Richards said:  "Mayor, I want to tell you something".
"What's that?" asked the Mayor.
Looking Mayor Kollek directly in the eye, the apostle said:
"Ten years ago I was here in Jerusalem and one day I went into three synagogues and hanging up on the wall in one of them was a large armchair.  I asked the rabbi what it was there for (I knew but I wanted him to tell me, which he did).  He said that it was so that if Elijah comes 'we can lower the chair and let him sit in it'.  Now Mayor, I want to tell you something and what I tell you is the truth.  Elijah has already been.  On the third day of April 1836 he appeared to Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery in the Kirtland Temple".
The Mayor said:
"I guess I better tell them to take that chair down."
(Beloved Apostle, p.301)


 It has always amazed me that people all over the world are infected with the family history fever, seeking out their ancestors and finding their roots.  But we need not be amazed for this is the spirit of Elijah at its work.  The world at large knows very little of proxy work for the dead but we know and we must act in haste for the time is getting so short.  This message comes out loud and clear through the leaders of the Church over and over again.  Elder Neal A. Maxwell has said this regarding family history:

"What we do here is so vital, but it is actually a preparation for our labours in paradise in the spirit world.  The scope in that spirit world is ten times as large as the demographics of this world."
("Our Preparation for Work in the Spirit World", excerpt from Neal A. Maxwell's address to Religious Educators: Salt Lake Tabernacle, 2 February 2001)


There is another aspect of the spirit of Elijah which affects us on daily basis within our families.  In a world full of violence where families are turning on each other we need this spirit now more than ever before.  Elder James E. Faust talked about this spirit in April 1993 conference:

"Perhaps we regard the power bestowed by Elijah as something associated only with formal ordinances performed in sacred places.  But these ordinances become dynamic and productive of good only as they reveal themselves in our daily lives.  Malachi said that the power of Elijah would turn the hearts of the fathers and the children to each other.  The heart is the seat of the emotions and a conduit for revelation.  This sealing power thus reveals itself in family relationships, in attributes and virtues developed in a nurturing environment and in loving service.  These are the cords that bind families together, and the priesthood advances their development."
(James E. Faust, May Ensign 1993)

Studying about family history this time around has brought me to a wider view of this work.  This is not just gathering of names and learning about your ancestors.  This is about uniting the whole of the human family, the work of the plan of salvation.  The Saviour has made all this possible.  He has not left us subject to the sting of death but has redeemed us both body and soul through one amazing selfless act.

"For this is my work and my glory - to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man"
(Moses 1:39)






THE BEGINNING OF A GREAT WORK



President Wilford Woodruff was the Church President who ushered in the most marvellous work in this dispensation, that of family history. During the 1894 general conference he announced that he had received a revelation about genealogical work.  He said:

"We want Latter-day Saints from this time to trace their genealogies as far as they can, and to be sealed to their fathers and mothers.  Have children sealed to their parents, and run this chain through as far as you can get it. This is the will of the Lord to his people. 

"In my prayers the Lord revealed to me, that it was my duty to say to all Israel to carry this principle out, and in fulfilment of that revelation, I lay it before this people.  I say to all men who are labouring in these temples, carry out this principle, and then we shall make one step in advance of what we have had before." (Deseret Evening News, May 19, 1894)



President Woodruff had a great love for this work which might have commenced with a remarkable experience he had in the St. George Temple where he served for a time as its' President.  It was in this temple that endowments for the dead were performed for the first time in this dispensation.



"In 1887, Elder Woodruff was appointed as the first president of the St. George Temple.  Here he experienced some marvellous manifestations.  It was in this temple that the signers of the Declaration of Independence appeared to him and requested that their temple work be done. 

"The spirits of the dead gathered around me, wanting to know why we did not redeem them.  Said they, 'You have had the use of the Endowment House for a number of years, and yet nothing has ever been done for us.  We laid the foundation of the government you now enjoy, and we...remained true to it and were faithful to God'.  These were the signers of the Declaration of Independence (of the United States of America) and they waited on me for two days and two nights...I straightway went into the baptismal font and called upon Brother McAllister to baptize me for the signers of the Declaration of Independence, and fifty other eminent men, making one hundred in all, including John Wesley, Columbus and others". (The Discourses of Wilford Woodruff, sel. G. Homer Durham (1946), 160-61)  He was also baptized for every president of the United States until that time except three." (Church News May 1, 1993)



From 1885 to 1900, many Church members served genealogical missions.  They were invited to Salt Lake City to receive a blessing for their mission from a General Authority.  They were also provided with a missionary card and a letter of appointment.  They visited relatives, recorded names from gravestones, and studied parish records and family Bibles, returning to their homes with valuable information that allowed temple work to be performed.  Many missionaries reported spiritual experiences that gave them the firm assurance that the Lord was with them and often directed them to a needed source or relative.  (Our Heritage, A Brief History of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-
day Saints, p 101-2)

You hear many amazing experiences in the Church from members who are heavily involved in family history but none is more amazing than that of Wilford Woodruff who was visited by the founding fathers.  These were faithful, God fearing men who provided the foundation of faith in God on which America stands.  I have always admired them and rejoice in  knowing that the temple ordinances have been done for them.

Tuesday, 22 October 2013

ARE THERE SWEETHEARTS IN HEAVEN?







 President Heber J. Grant told a wonderful story about work for the dead:

"There were three young men who were as intimate, I think, as any three young men who ever lived could be.  They were Heber J. Grant, Feramorz L. Young and Richard W. Young.  Feramorz L. Young had been in the East and had been graduated with honors from the Troy Polytechnic Institute, then went on a mission to Mexico, where he died and was buried in the Gulf of Mexico.  It always seemed to me a strange thing that a boy with all the education he had, who had made a wonderful success should be taken from us...He had to fight for the Church and its doctrines all the time he was in the East.

I thought that with his faith and knowledge and with all the information he had gained, it was too bad he had to lay down his life while in the Lord's service.

I do not think that Fera Young in his life ever listened to an unclean story.  If anyone started to tell such a story he would excuse himself and walk away.  I never heard an unchaste word uttered by him.  If there ever was a clean, sweet, absolutely pure young man upon the earth, he was that young man.

When he died his mother said she could not remember a word or thought or act of his life that would bring her the least sorrow or uneasiness.  There is many a mother perhaps who might say such a thing of her son, but usually if the man who without exception was the most intimate friend of that son from his boyhood up to the time of his death should tell everything he knew of him, the mother could not say that.  My mother could not say that of me, if others told her what I did as a youngster, but I could say it of Feramorz Young.

What in the providence of the Lord is the result?...A woman came to Sister Young, his mother, with photographs of one of this lady's near and dear friends, a very beautiful woman, and said:

"Now Mrs. Young, I do not believe a thing of what I am going to tell you.  This girlfriend of mine was one of the noblest, finest, choicest kind of girls and young women that ever lived.  She has come to me in this city of Salt Lake on three separate occasions at night in dreams, and has given me this information: the date of her birth, the date of her death, and all this is necessary, she says, for a record in the temple; and she has told me that your son, Feramorz L. Young, has converted her, and that in addition to converting her he has proposed marriage to her.  She has said to me, "I want you to go to Mrs. Young and give her this information and vouch for my honesty, virtue, integrity and upright life, and have the work done for me and have me married for eternity to her son, Feramorz. L. Young."

This woman who visited Mrs Young said:  "I do not believe a word of it but the last time this friend of mine came - which was the third time - she said: "There is nobody in Salt Lake City who knows me and can vouch for me except you.  You are the only individual that I know in Salt Lake City".  She said further to Mrs Young: "I can furnish you any references you may wish regarding my character, from the place where I formerly lived.  The last time this young woman came to me she said, "You might just as well go to Mrs. Young and give her this information, because I am going to come, and come, and come, until you do it".  And the woman continued, "I just cannot bear to have her come again, it is so uncanny, and I do not believe a thing of it".

This beautiful girl was sealed to Brother Fera Young and I am convinced that my dear friend lost nothing by dying in his youth.
("Comforting Manifestations": Excerpts from Funeral Sermon delivered by President Heber J. Grant from the Improvement Era February 1931)

Sometimes we think that those who die in their youth have missed out on love, marriage, children, a life, but this story clearly indicates this is not so.  We don't know who or what is in the spirit world for them. What incredible comfort it is to those of us who have lost children.  They are still with us because of temple ordinances and ever will be.



Here's what Elder Neal A. Maxwell had to say about this:

"We cannot control what I call 'the great transfer board in the sky'.  It's out of our control.  And the inconveniences that are sometimes associated with releases from labours here are necessary in order to accelerate the work there.  Heavenly Father can't do His work with ten times more people that we have on this planet except He will on occasion take some of the very best sisters and brothers.  And the conditions of termination here, painful though they are, are part of the conditions of acceleration there.  And we're back to faith and the timing of God.  And to be able to say, 'Thy will be done' (and I would paraphrase it, 'thy timing be done') is part of letting Him know we will be submissive in that situation too, even when we do not fully understand it.  (Our Preparation for Work in the Spirit World, excerpt from Neal A. Maxwell's address to Religious Educators: Salt Lake Tabernacle, 2 February 2001)