Friday, 10 July 2026

THE GIVERS

 



“Conversion means consecrating your life to caring for and serving others who need your help and sharing your gits and blessings….Every unselfish act of kindness and service increases your spirituality.

“God would use you to bless others. Your continued spiritual growth and eternal progress are very much wrapped up in your relationships – in how you treat others…… The person who does only those things in the Church that concern himself alone will never reach the goal of perfection. Service to others is what the Gospel and exalted life are all about.”  (Elder Robert J. Whetten, Strengthen Thy Brethren, in CR April 2005, p 96, Ensign May 2005, p 91)

There was a king in the Book of Mormon who lived in ancient Americas by the name of King Benjamin who delivered a powerful sermon about service to his people. The premise of his sermon has several elements:

1.      His first reasoning is simple gratitude for the life that God has granted us to live and his preservation of us from day to day (Mosiah 2:20,21,23);

2.      God asks service of us in return for the debt we owe for our lives so he can bless us (Mosiah 2:24);

3.      Through serving one another we come to know God (Mosiah 5:13);

4.      By going above and beyond to serve those we do not deem worthy, we overcome the human inclination to judge and we grow in humility recognizing that we are all beggars before God, that all we have has been granted us by Him and not our own ability (Mosiah 4:19);

5.      All that we have belongs to God, therefore none of our possessions are ours to keep hence we have an obligation to impart of our substance to the needy among us (Mosiah 4:22);

6.      We measure the state of our hearts by our willingness to serve and help others. Even when we cannot help, the desire to do so should be in our hearts. It is the desires of our hearts that will one day be judged as much as our acts (Mosiah 4:24);

7.      By giving of ourselves and our substance we break our attachment to the things of the world. All that we are attached to in this life will one day perish when we leave, nothing is ours to keep (Mosiah 4:23);

These seven elements are sound reasoning for our obligation to care for each other. But besides all these reasons, the greatest reason is this…..by serving our fellowmen, we become like the greatest servant of all. King Benjamin assured his people that if they are ‘steadfast and immovable, and always abounding in good works’, that they will be called by the ‘name of Christ’ (Mosiah 5:9). In fact he mentions the importance of this 10 times in his sermon (Mosiah 5:7-12).

Why is this important? Because it guarantees that we shall in the end be found on the right hand of God (Mosiah 5:9). To be found in such a prestigious place for eternity means that we have to become like the man whose name we bear…..the Greatest Servant of all, the Christ. We can only become like Him, if we act like Him and do the works that He did. We are nothing without His example and His power to enable us to reach such heights.

I have always thought I would be on the giving side of service. I considered the giving part ‘noble’ but the receiving part ‘weak’…..until two years ago. I have an aversion to feeling weak but God thought He would show me otherwise. Since I have been sick and have become more and more dependent on others, I have realized one thing. Service cannot be noble in any way, if there is no one to receive. And if there is no one to receive, the givers miss out on becoming like the Greatest Servant.

Now when someone helps me achieve the smallest task I cannot do myself, I cry…..when strangers at the supermarket assist me with my groceries, I cry…..when someone makes me feel good about myself despite my incapacities, I cry….I cry all the time these days, from gratitude. I cry because of the givers.

- CATHRYNE ALLEN 


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